We always think how we become special for the people whom we always care n how they can feel that we are very special for them. So here are some steps which can help us to some extend.
Be Nice:-Be nice to them. Make them gifts. pick
flowers or just remember to smile and listen to them for a minute. Handmade
gifts for birthdays are especially nice if you have a little skill and want to
stand out from the crowd. You will look pretty special to the receiver. It
always shows that you're special when you make them something because that
thing has just become special. Act as nice as you can make others feel
comfortable while they talk to you.
Be Yourself:-Be yourself,but if you insist on imposing
on another, try making little routines that show the true inner you. Doing
these small things are something that shows who you really are. Similarly,
don't let them push their ideas onto you without at least thinking about them
first. You are out to be yourself and be recognized for it, not to be what they think you should be.
Be Sweet:-Be sweet.Hug them when they are happy or
sad, and help them with their problems.
Be Funny:-Make them laugh, Make them Love
You.They love you for who you are. Realize them that they are special:-We are all original and
no one can be exactly like us. Even if they may not feel special, they ARE
special because a duplicate of them can't be created. With this in mind, you
can't be the only special person out there but there are some good ways to get
positive attention and remind people that you are special to them.
Smile:-A smile can influence everyone around you
and make them remember you. If you have ever had your day brightened by a
random stranger smiling at you on the street then you know how powerful a smile
can be.
Wear attractive clothing :- Only you can decide that, and
don't listen to judgments on it.
Help them:- Hold doors open, offer to
carry heavy packages (but only if you know you can - don't hurt yourself!),
push the right button for their floor in the elevator. Little things add up and
soon you will be much happier with yourself, and other people will be happy
too!
Sympathize with others:- Even if you think that someone is
being too dramatic about a situation, kind words can make them feel better and
make you a special person to them because you took the time to listen and
reassure them.
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